Self-control – or the restraint exercised over one’s impulses, emotions or desires – is what we employ to reach our long-term goals. Plus, studies show that people with self-discipline tend to be happier. But, how do you go about it when there are so many temptations and impulses surrounding you?
- Know Your Weaknesses – acknowledge those shortcomings
- Remove Temptations – ditch the bad influences
- Set Clear Goals and Have a Plan – determine what you hope to accomplish and what success will look like to you
- Practice Self-Discipline – it’s a learned behavior that requires repetition and practice
- Be Aware of Triggers – acknowledging your weak spots means you won’t be surprised when they surface
- Create Simple New Goals – focus on doing one thing consistently rather than trying to change everything all at once
- Eat Often and Healthy – being hangry can impact willpower
- Change Your Perception About Willpower – the amount of willpower you have is determined by your beliefs
- Give Yourself a Backup Plan – go into situations with a plan to give yourself the mindset and self-control necessary
- Reward Yourself – anticipation can be powerful
- Forgive Yourself and Move Forward –keep moving ahead, even if you fall short at times, rather than getting hung up by guilt, anger or frustration
Sources: American Psychological Association, Vol. 43, No. 1, January 2012; Psychology Today; Entrepreneur.com, 5/14/19; Merriam-Webster Dictionary
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